Dragonkort Posted February 10, 2021 Report Posted February 10, 2021 Hi guys , Havent been on for a day or so because my sister has been having a lot of medical tests. She has a very large tumor in her left breast. it takes up most of her breast and is causing her a great deal of pain. The fast rate that it is growing is also a cause for concern. She called me the other day to let me know that she will be having surgery to hopefuly remove just the tumer....or if the biopsy comes back and shows it to be cancer she may have to have her left breast removed as well. they will do the biopsy right after they remove the tumer.....and since she has to have her gall bladder out to they will take her galbladder out while waiting for the biopsy results. my little sister is 10 years yunger then me and she has never smoked anything other then pot now and then. because of covid none of us is allowed to go with her and be with her befor or after the operation. He best friend is going to drive her to the hospital and then he will go to the caseno for a few hours until the surgerys are done.....and then hopefuly he will be able to pick her up from the hospital and take her home. v asked her to come stay here for a day or so after her operations but she is planning on going home. we will have the bed ready here for her if she changes her mind these are the first surgerys she has ever had and i dont think she relizes how draining any operation is let alone 2 operations at the same time. Please pray that the tumor is not cancer and that both her operations go well and perhaps maybe ask God to help her change her mind about comming here for a few days after her surgerys. Although i never worked as a medical assistant because of the agoraphobia I do have a degree as a medical assistant and when i was much younger i worked as a nurses aid so i am more then qulitfied to take care of her IF she dosnt decide she HAS to be independent and handle all this by her self and alone. Thank you all very much in advance for your prayers John B, Loskoppie, amazingkevin and 1 other 4 Quote
TAIrving Posted February 11, 2021 Report Posted February 11, 2021 I will pray for your sister. It sounds frightening but these days the medical profession can work miracles. amazingkevin and danny 2 Quote
bandaideman Posted February 11, 2021 Report Posted February 11, 2021 This is a frightening time for all the family keep them close. I will pray for you all and the guidance of your surgeons eyes, hands and heart. Also pray your sisters outcome will be Surprisingly good. danny and amazingkevin 2 Quote
Scrappile Posted February 11, 2021 Report Posted February 11, 2021 She and you have my prayers.. danny and amazingkevin 2 Quote
spirithorse Posted February 11, 2021 Report Posted February 11, 2021 Prayers for your sister and your entire family. God Bless! Spirithorse danny and amazingkevin 2 Quote
rjweb Posted February 11, 2021 Report Posted February 11, 2021 Will keep you all in our prayers, RJ amazingkevin and danny 2 Quote
scrollerpete Posted February 11, 2021 Report Posted February 11, 2021 Hoping that the surgery and diagnosis are the best, will keep praying for a fast recovery amazingkevin 1 Quote
WayneMahler Posted February 11, 2021 Report Posted February 11, 2021 Prayers for all. Indeed scary times. We went through the same thing. My wife is now 3 years clear. There is light at the end of tunnel. amazingkevin 1 Quote
amazingkevin Posted February 12, 2021 Report Posted February 12, 2021 On 2/10/2021 at 6:00 PM, Dragonkort said: Hi guys , Havent been on for a day or so because my sister has been having a lot of medical tests. She has a very large tumor in her left breast. it takes up most of her breast and is causing her a great deal of pain. The fast rate that it is growing is also a cause for concern. She called me the other day to let me know that she will be having surgery to hopefuly remove just the tumer....or if the biopsy comes back and shows it to be cancer she may have to have her left breast removed as well. they will do the biopsy right after they remove the tumer.....and since she has to have her gall bladder out to they will take her galbladder out while waiting for the biopsy results. my little sister is 10 years yunger then me and she has never smoked anything other then pot now and then. because of covid none of us is allowed to go with her and be with her befor or after the operation. He best friend is going to drive her to the hospital and then he will go to the caseno for a few hours until the surgerys are done.....and then hopefuly he will be able to pick her up from the hospital and take her home. v asked her to come stay here for a day or so after her operations but she is planning on going home. we will have the bed ready here for her if she changes her mind these are the first surgerys she has ever had and i dont think she relizes how draining any operation is let alone 2 operations at the same time. Please pray that the tumor is not cancer and that both her operations go well and perhaps maybe ask God to help her change her mind about comming here for a few days after her surgerys. Although i never worked as a medical assistant because of the agoraphobia I do have a degree as a medical assistant and when i was much younger i worked as a nurses aid so i am more then qulitfied to take care of her IF she dosnt decide she HAS to be independent and handle all this by her self and alone. Thank you all very much in advance for your prayers I'd pray for anybody getting surgery. The thought gives me the willy's. now her will to live is great going for 2 surgerys at once.It would help having her name though! Quote
wombatie Posted February 12, 2021 Report Posted February 12, 2021 Prayers and thoughts are on there way. Stay strong. Marg Quote
Dragonkort Posted February 14, 2021 Author Report Posted February 14, 2021 Thank you every one. This is not the first time our family has had to live with and through cancer. Several years ago my sister in law had breast cancer...so of course she went through cemo and eventualy had her breast removed. my brother was so understanding....He even shaved his head in support of her as she lost her hair. anytime she went out or had company she put on her cancer baseball cap with hair attatched to it that looked just like her real hair, and then about 5 years ago my mom had lung cancer we all pratcialy lived at her house until she died.... it was to say the least hard watching her get worse andworse wewere all at her bedside telling her it was ok she didnt havetofight anymore, that wed all be alright and it was ok for her to let go. of course it wasnt and we all still moran herlost.... we've been told our clansih ways is unusuly these days but mom was the head of our familys....even after we married and had children. dad died from emphisma and copd, so you see we have all been here before oh and my sisters name is patricia or tricia never pat or patty ! lol She tossed a boy across the room once for calling her that lol she has a brown belt in ki fin do... dont know if she got her black belt before she had to stop. Her eye dr told her she couldnt take any more hits to the head as her retna i think it was might detatch and leave her blind. amazingkevin 1 Quote
amazingkevin Posted February 14, 2021 Report Posted February 14, 2021 Prayers for Patrica coming her way!!!! Quote
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